tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25083449.post5213745313791990113..comments2023-08-01T08:33:48.823-04:00Comments on Infertility & Hope: Happy New Year!Hopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13429637621858635446noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25083449.post-76926759039912331032007-01-03T23:37:00.000-05:002007-01-03T23:37:00.000-05:00Wow. It's hard to believe how some people can act ...Wow. It's hard to believe how some people can act and feel content with themselves. You deserve to enjoy every single minute of this pregnancy!! These are 2 totally separate events and I am sure she will get her fair share in the "limelight" on her special day. <br />I am glad to hear things are going well; can't wait to hear about the u/s!!!Kirstenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15515550711217364453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25083449.post-48699200658715392092007-01-03T16:40:00.000-05:002007-01-03T16:40:00.000-05:00Good grief...some people are so self centered. I ...Good grief...some people are so self centered. I know she's your family, but that's just ridiculous. Anyone that knows someone who has gone through IF should be beyond elated for them regardless of when their due date is. If her wedding is in the spring and you're not due until August, then for crying out loud..by the time your baby is born everyone will have already forgotten about her wedding anyway. And your baby showers and all that won't have even begun until after he wedding anyway. Don't let that kind of silliness get you down. Just enjoy being pregnant.Chastityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00630031458932527817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25083449.post-62350509961692388472007-01-03T12:53:00.000-05:002007-01-03T12:53:00.000-05:00Sorry to hear of your SIL's attitude, Hope. That ...Sorry to hear of your SIL's attitude, Hope. That must have hurt tremendously.<br /><br />My bit of advice, which may be assvice and if it is I apologize in advance, is to try your best to forgive her. Weddings make some women crazy. There is an expectation of perfection and ‘their day’. My husband kept saying, ‘as long by the end of it we are married, I’ll be happy’. My mom also would say, ‘the wedding is a day, marriage is a lifetime’. These very simple, grounding concepts can be lost on a woman caught up in the hoopla of it all, turning a normal, mostly sane person into a bridezilla.<br /><br />Now I am not saying go out and be best friends, just once the dust settles and some time has passed try to forgive her selfishness. Now if she makes a habit of this type of behaviour, well, try to be pleasant at family functions. If she is a decent person she will eventually feel like a dolt, she may not apologize but may let you know in other ways. <br /><br />Wishing you the best and try to focus on the well wishes and your family that is excited for you. Take care Hope.Inglewoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17134146120953237406noreply@blogger.com